Not so long time ago I thought

that we should be above all the feuding in the anarchist scene, be open to every direction, and so on.

But then I understood, that it that it no way convinces other people, and they will despise you, whatever you do:

-If you attempt to maintain contacts with everyone and to be open, they will declare that you are opportunists, who aim to control the whole movement. And in general, they will consider you hypocrites and moralists, who consider themselves to be higher and more righteous, than everyone else.
-If you in contrary take sides in all the feuds, on one side, or against all of the sides, they will declare that you are fucked-up sectarians.

Anarchists have even worse self esteem than people in general. Thus, there will always be haters in the scenes. And hate and contempt is not only due to envy, anarchists just simply love to hate and contempt other anarchists. Because hate and contempt are anti-authoritarian. If a comrade had even for a minute an illusion, that he had some success, made something meaningful, you should immediately announce, that it is all bullshit and he is worth of nothing. Even a slightest contentment is a way to leadership and authoritarianism. A person, who even for a second did not felt his total nothingness, is on a slippery road. You should immediately attack him, write an anonymous flame comment, say that he is a sectarian or an opportunist (or both of them on the same time), so that he would faster return to herd of the anarchists.